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NO PRESSURE

  • lamphub202022
  • Jan 17, 2024
  • 1 min read

The society believes that a woman has no pride if she is above her mid-twenties and not yet married. They jest that, at that time she no longer has a reason to be proud and encourage her to fling herself at any guy who looks her way and count herself lucky she is still wanted.


They expect her to be clingy, needy and wholly submissive in the pursuit of a man just to find (and get) love.


Should that really be the case? They say she has no time as if she is dying. They say she should have no pride as if she was made only to be a wife. They say her biological clock is ticking as if the essence of marriage is for childbearing.



The society needs to unlearn and learn that procreation is the last purpose of a marriage. They need to stop majoring on the minor while they minor on the major.


Would a marriage be said to be worthless if there is no child even if both parties marry early and are at peace with each other?


Marriage is a commitment between two people who found love and want to spend their lives together, with each other—note each other. Building a family comes after.


It's better to live happily single, get married late and have a blissful marriage than to marry early due to peer and societal pressure and have a marriage that is not different from hell.


Refuse to be pressured to make wrong marital decisions. No one has time in their hands anyways. Be happy, love yourself and make healthy choices.



 
 
 

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